It has been believed by a number of people that women don’t actually need to perform during sex. That it’s okay to let the man do all the work in the bedroom, although this may be true putting in effort in the bedroom will not only help him get hooked on you but it makes the overall experience even better.
Sex should be something that connects two people, sometimes the connection works other times it doesn’t. Sex is based on the people rather than the actual performance. Bad sex is as normal and common as bad dates. It’s just one of those things that happens. But to decrease the chances of that happening, here are some tips on spicing it up a bit before sex and in the bedroom.
How to seduce a man?
There are a few ways you can work around seducing a man even out of the bedroom. Keeping your energy magnetic enough to want to keep having sex with you and being around you always.
A few ways to seduce a man with or without sex are:
- Keep feminine: Men are naturally drawn to high levels of feminine. It’s in their nature to want to stroke their masculine levels.
- Be exclusive: Never show him too much importance. Always keep it casual, never fuss or fight with him about anything, even things that would normally upset any woman. Keep busy with your life and speak to him at selective times. This makes him want you more.
- Always be a 10: Look good and always have good energy radiating. Anyone who has good energy naturally attracts other people who want a piece of their energy.
Wear something sexy every now and then
It does not always have to be a costume of some sort but even if it’s a sexy fitting underwear and the next time a lingerie one piece. Of course not everyday can be a sexy day but simply having that element of surprise would definitely have him looking forward to seeing you in the bedroom and wanting to please you even more.
Be open to new things
Keep it very exciting by being open to new things. Whether it is adding toys or maybe even a different person to join you two. Bringing a new exciting experience into the bedroom may bring you two closer together. Any form of bonding is advised in relationships and this might be what works for you two.
Keep to yourself
You don’t want to give in every time he wants you. Tease him every now and then. Wear your sexiest outfits but don’t give in. This creates some fun teasing in the relationship and some exclusivity to your sex.
The good old saying, lady in streets and freak in the sheets. Be a completely different person in bed, you can be dominant or submissive but it’s going to have to be opposite of your natural state. This will keep him looking forward to experiencing this version of you that he does not see on a regular basis.
Men in the bedroom
Men are a lot less complicated in the bedroom compared to women. For most women, a lot of things have to align. How they are feeling about themselves, how they are feeling about the man and if the energy just feels right.
For most men, not much has to be “right” besides the feeling of the girl at that time. Which is just how they are wired and programmed. But the goal is to want him to only want you. Although that may probably be impossible depending on the type of man you’re dealing with, you at least want to come close.
You want to seduce him physically and mentally. That even when it’s not sex related he is thinking about you and the sex is the best cherry on top. Men are very simple and want a full package in their girlfriends. Their package entails good sex and good personality, if you can give him this you will do more than just keep him. Being confident in yourself and your ability in your sex game will only attract your type even more.