We have heard of the saying for years now. You with the right person everything just seems to be connecting but it just seems to be the wrong time for both of you. Maybe one of you has just gotten out of a relationship, maybe one is moving out of the city. It could literally be anything that makes you feel as if only things were different. And in extreme cases, you find the right person while you are still in a relationship. This is a common one but couldn’t leave because they had a long history with their partner.
There is no solid way to get out of the “right person wrong time” but we can explain it a bit better for you. And help you with what to do when you’re in a situation like that.
What to do in a “right person, wrong time” situation?
It is almost normal for people to experience this type of situation at least once in their dating life. The way forward is usually very tricky. It’s between “do I wait for the right time or will the right time ever come?” Here’s a list of what to do in a situation like this:
- Don’t fight it: This will only cause the situation to be longer than it actually needs to be. Some situations are the way they are freezing and you can’t always mold reality into something you want especially if it involves another person. Allow it to be what it is, acceptance is the first step to break things.
- Enjoy your moments together: Eventually, your relationship will have to come to an end because it won’t work out from the get-go. but you can allow yourselves to enjoy the time you guys have left together before things officially die out.
- Learn from this: These situations do occur most often the only difference is people avoid him from the get-go. During your talking stage, this is the best time to know whether your relationship would work out, in the long run, to avoid any right person at the wrong time.
Do I entertain the ‘right person, wrong time?’
It’s a really big question that is often out with the situation of whether you should still be in a relationship with them even though you know it’s the wrong time. Honestly, this is not one answer that fits all, it all depends on your relationship and how you guys feel about each other. it is best to make this decision in your right state of mind and not a hasty decision. If your connection is so intense and you truly want to be with each other there will be a sacrifice that needs to be made by one of you which will then create a perfect time.
How to get out of this situation?
The best way to get out of this situation is by communicating the reality of it. If you aren’t communicating then that means one of you will be ghosting each other due to the situation just not working out. But if you communicate then it creates space for you to get to know what you guys want and see if there are any openings to continue the relationship, if they aren’t then you know it’s time to leave.
