A lot of women struggle to have partners to meet their needs this is because men are generally wired differently. For instance, you could hint something at a man at the moment he might think about it but after that, he is no longer thinking about it since it was just a fleeting thought. with man, there is a lot more transparency that you have to put out in order to get what you’re looking for. In your transparency said you don’t want to seem too clingy and want to keep it as cool as possible.
What you need to do to make him meet your needs?
How you need to be as an individual to make him meet your needs is to be a very chill partner. Men like women who are super chill, they don’t like to be bothered the whole time and have people or their partners want to cling to them. This is not to say that if you’re clingy he won’t do these things for you but it’s just a natural thing for men to want more peace than anything else. If you are very chill and ask for certain things but don’t put any pressure on them, he is more likely to want to give those things to you.
The best thing to be is also content with yourself. Not wanting too much from him to fulfil will only make him want to fulfil your needs. If you are constantly looking for him to do things for you and fulfil all different kinds of things he will feel as though he is a parent to someone who’s supposed to be his girlfriend. Men also have a tendency of wanting to be sons, so if so early on they are forced to be responsible for someone it is a turn-off.
How to make him meet your needs?
As stated above be transparent. Men do not take hints as quickly as women do they might think about it but all thoughts will quickly change. You need to be very Direct About what you want and what it is you are expecting from him. Two things were either come out of the situation. He would say “hey I cannot meet your standards” or it will just be a “cool” situation either way you will eventually get what you’re looking for.
Of course, as you approach the situation you don’t want to be very difficult or on his neck just a simple, “hey you know this is what I like, this is what I’ve always accepted”. He will take it as that and not tried to waiver. If he does try to degrade your standards you can simply go and find another partner.
