Have you ever met that one person that you feel you really wanna be with for the long run but don’t know how? With everything invested in you, you want to make sure that your relationship lasts. And more importantly, you want to make sure that the relationship is healthy and at the same time, you are not forcing or manipulating your way into lasting.
There are a few basic ways that may help to make a relationship last. You should know though before we dive deep into this article that somebody who doesn’t want to be with you would be with you. It’s as simple as that nobody can be forced into a relationship. It will be very toxic to force love or exclusivity.
Tips on how to make a relationship last
Have fun in your relationship
Nine times out of ten people always want to be in the space of people they find fun. Make sure that your relationship is fun and it’s not always serious and full of some baggage. Life in itself will have its own issues but when you can turn to your partner and know that they will help you forget about all those issues definitely draws you closer to them. This also helps with the longevity of your relationship.
This is one of the most important key components to being in a long-term relationship. You want to make sure that you and your partner can be friends. That they can turn to you for something that troubles them and never feel judged because of it. Once your partner feels as though you can be a friend and a lover it is much easier and a lot more logical for them to want to be with you in the long run. They automatically subconsciously feel as though they can depend on you and they have everything they need with a new. You don’t want to be your partner’s only friend but you also want to be your partner’s friend.
Give each other space
Yes, it’s really fun to spend every possible second with your partner when you can but it is also not the healthiest thing. It can be fun in the first few months to spend every single moment together but eventually, you start to get tired of each other. When it is necessary, give each other breaks to have your own life and enjoy other parts of life. This is where your friendship will come in. You do not hang out with your friend every single day you know to give yourselves space to miss each other.
Have long-term plans
This is more on your psychological side. Once you make plans with someone no matter what may be going on you continuously look on achieving those plans. Of course, you don’t want to stay with someone simply because you made plans with them but your plans should not be too intense. For example, you made plans to have a luxurious dinner within a month and it’s something you’re both genuinely looking forward to.
Whatever happens in that space it’s all excitement of you guys actually going to the luxurious dinner and spending time together. Whatever the plans may help to build a bond between you two also resulting in a long-term relationship.
What if the relationship doesn’t last?
The key thing to remember when such things don’t work out or relationships, in general, don’t work out is if it was meant to be it would. A lot of people feel slightly offended by this information and feel as though it is some higher self advice. But the truth is you cannot force anyone to be with you and you cannot force the situation to work out. there will be people who genuinely want to do more for you than this relationship was willing to put out. Giving yourself the opportunity to accept rejection and look for something that serves you better than a relationship shows growth.