Falling in love is one of the most exciting and scariest romantic experiences. It’s like everybody wants to fall in love and settle down with their true love but the fear of heartbreak just lingers in the back of our minds. If you are currently seeing someone right now that you truly do admire and see the relationship going the extra mile but cannot quite allow yourself to fall in love with them here are some tips to help.
What is falling in love?
For years and years, poets have written about what love feels like on what falling in love could be in any different scenario. It has been compared to travelling or finally finding that good book or that one food that hit the spot. Falling in love is something we can’t quite explain but can only feel.
It is the feeling of completely getting lost in someone. Your inability to be unhappy around them and you did need to want to make them feel the way you feel. The happiness they spark up with a new is untamable.
The downside of falling in love is just like the movie Titanic, you know at some point it’s going to end. No matter how long you may have the feeling of being in love it does not last as much as we wanted to. Many people have described the feeling of being in love as infatuation, as though it is not real love.
They have said being in love is a state of simply loving the person and the joy they give you but loving a person is to completely accept them for everything they are good and bad. And love cannot help you through tough situations in a relationship but love can. But you do not have to be separated always the two can come as one.
How to fall in love?
The best way to fall in love is to not fight it. A lot of people feel the need to fight their feelings when they are falling for someone. It usually is fear of heartbreak or fear that your partner might not quite be at that stage of the relationship yet but whatever it is we hold back these feelings. This does not help the situation and only starts to cause little petty fights within the relationship because of all the inner emotional build-up.
You don’t have to tell your partner that you’re in love with them unless you’re really on the edge or it just comes up. But allow yourself to be in love allow yourself to feel what you’re feeling. Think about them as often as you like. These are all feeling that need to be felt and there is nothing wrong with feeling them.
Of course, you want your partner to fall in love with you as well but give them their own time to fall in love. Imagine how you would have felt if they came and demanded you to fall in love or they made you feel pressured and somewhere to fall in love with them. Those butterfly feelings wouldn’t be as genuine and as fun. Falling in love is meant to be fun and at each’s own pace.
Is your partner in love with you too?
That is the million-dollar question when falling in love you want to know if your partner feels the way you do. Although it would make it better if you knew how they felt not knowing is also right. when it comes to her if you want to focus on your feelings, believe it or not, your feelings will radiate towards them and they will end up falling in love with you too. If the waiting and guessing game is not for you simply talking to your partner and hearing where they stand in your relationship is the best bet to knowing. If your relationship is still very early stages, the chances are still high. Chances are if you’re further along in your relationship it is hard to say as you are now stable and set and your partner might not be feeling those emotions as intensely as before.
