Falling in love is the exciting part of being with someone. It’s important to know that falling in love and actually loving someone are two different things. Loving someone is a choice that you make, no matter what the circumstances may be. Falling in love is a feeling, sometimes it may be there sometimes it may not. Falling in love often takes place when you’re first getting to know someone, but this feeling is possible when the relationship has been going on for months. Here is how to fall in love.
What is falling in love?
As we mentioned above, falling in love is a feeling. Sometimes you feel happy and other times you feel sad. Feelings aren’t stagnant and fluctuate over time. Not being in love with your partner isn’t a bad thing. Oftentimes, when people don’t feel the feeling of being in love with their partner they automatically think the relationship is dead. But it isn’t.
How to fall in love?
There are a few ways to help you fall in love with someone. These also help even after you have been in a relationship for a long time and are simply looking for a spark. Here is how to fall in love:
Find new things to do together
You can never go wrong with trying out new things. Whether you love or hate the activity, you and your partner are bound to somewhat feel closer together. There is a level of bonding and engagement when you and your partner can try new things and enjoy or hate them together. You also get to see a different side of each other and simply embrace it.
Make time for deep/intimate conversations
As much as we may hate it and feel as though it is intense, they bring a lot of light to your relationship. You find out about thoughts and feelings your partner may have had and you never quite knew about. These little conversations are healthy for your relationship from time to time and you actually have to make time for them.
New bedroom styles
Occasionally you and your partner should make time to try something out in the bedroom. Whether it may be awkward or turns out to be fun and fitting, you and your partner get to share an excitement together. Releasing dopamine with someone only helios you like them more, and possibly fall in love with them.
Be spontaneous
Doing spontaneous things for your partner will definitely add a lot more excitement to your relationship. Your partner will definitely feel a lot more appreciated by you and want to reciprocate in the best way they know-how. You, the one doing spontaneous things will feel an excitement just doing it for your partner, only bringing you closer.
What if you don’t fall in love?
That is completely fine. Being in love does not determine how much you like or love your partner. It is simply an add on to your relationship. A happy togetherness feeling. Some people fall in love early, and others only later in the relationship. Regardless, embrace each other and make it other feel appreciated.
