Are you tired of being very shy and reserved around your crush? Deep down you know that if you just exited a lot more confidence within yourself and within your words that that would have his attention or maybe even help him like you more, well I’m here to give you some tips and tricks to look like the most confident girl in his eyes.
Confidence is very important especially when it has to do with getting a partner. A lot of men try to exude this confidence in their everyday lives because confidence equals some type of leadership and certainty within yourself which a lot of people do admire.
Without confidence, it is easy for people to push you to the back. and not only while trying to get your crush but this could reflect within your work environment your friendships everything. It is important that this confidence that your building comes from within yourself and is not sourced from anything outside of you. Without further ado, let’s get into it.
How to be more confident?
Like I said, being company within yourself first is what’s going to solidify your confidence. You want your confidence to be authentic, one that will not waver over a comment or somebody else’s actions. And in order to achieve this, we have to have a good foundation.
The thing about confident people is that they know what they’re good at and what they’re not. And when you know what you’re not good at, people cannot use that against you because you focus so much on trying to make up for it.
If you can honestly say I am not good at this section but I do know someone who is and I can make them do it for me is a very confident in your abilities to one; know yourself and two; get someone else to do it which is very impressive.
If you look good, you feel good
This is very true please do not ever try to copy somebody else’s style knowing very well it doesn’t work for your body type and it’s not true to your own fashion sense. Be okay with being different and looking different to trends and other people.
Once you look how you want to look, you automatically become more confident in that and show that you don’t take other people’s opinions into account. If that doesn’t scream confidence I don’t know what does.
Know a little bit of everything
Knowing a little bit of everything will definitely help you to be a lot more confident in conversations. Yes, I know this is outside of you but if you know that you know a bit of everything does that not give you confidence within yourself in your abilities? Right so not only is this for yourself but it is for your social skills as well.
Practice is very important. There are many ways to park that you could simply envision yourself in specific situations that you wouldn’t be confident in and act confidently in those situations. You could also watch your favorite actor or actress and see how they act and pose themselves in their confident roles and mimic that. This will help you become more confident in acting confident, your body and your mind will soon grow used to it.
How to be more confident around HIM
Okay so now we have built internal confidence but realistically speaking being confident around your crush still seems like such a nightmare. you have all these thoughts about “do I look okay to him?”, “am I talking too much?” or “is it something in my teeth?” no! You’re completely fine, you just need to calm down. Here are some ways to be more confident around him:
Don’t try too hard
Men can sense when a girl is trying too hard and this might get his attention but in all the wrong way. Keep a cool show that you are ok being by yourself, doing stuff by yourself even in his presence. This shows that you are confident in yourself and you don’t need to try to be in his face to get his attention because you naturally do anyway.
Let him approach you
Unless it’s important do not approach him and let him come to you or find ways to make him come to you. That way when he does you are in your comfortable space and this helps to feel more confident other than moving out of a space where you might feel you don’t belong.
Body language and conversations are the keys. This is how he will be the gauge how confident you are in yourself. when you guys are having a conversation look him in the eye you can look around once in a while but when you look him in the eye be very intentional hold your gaze.
The same goes for your actual body, make sure your arms are open showing signs of being receptive and make sure your body is facing him. This shows no sign of insecurity. Having your arms closed or your arms folded is a sign of defense and not wanting to show any emotion. So being able to open up to him and still being comfortable and cool just radiates beautiful confidence.
GO get him girl!
If it’s his interest that you want, you have definitely got him after using all of his tips and tricks. If you want to make him your boyfriend of course this also opens those kinds of conversations and thoughts within his head after that it is up to you and him.